I have heard countless times on how people who don't mind their business and poke nose in people's relationships end up being the villain when the couple eventually settle.
The couples might even use you to settle the quarrel while you are there taking sides and being judgemental.
About last week, my friend gisted me about her boyfried who broke up with her, she was really hurt so as the almighty advocator and obonge relationship settler that i am, i ended up calling the nigga asking reasons for the breakup.
The guy made it point blank that he was done with the relationship and there was no going back.
I had to advice my friend to move on as her bobo is no longer interested in the relationship, i referred her to books, songs and motivational videos and quotes to keep going.
It wasn't easy as most-times when i even call she would sound like her whole world had fallen apart, till gradually her voice started brightening up.
I applauded her for getting over him and told lots of stories on how evil guys were, she was playing along. Little did i know that the two had reunited.
How i found out?
I was surfing the internet with her phone one fine evening and a whatsapp message popped in from a number. Her boyfriend's name is George(not real name).. and the name was stored as G.
"You just got a message o? who be G?" i asked innocently
"oh,,its Gina, give me the phone" she hurriedly bounced out of the kitchen.
I was curious immediately and we dragged the phone tirelessly till i suceeded in scrolling up to previous messages and found out that it was her boyfriend.
I was shocked!
I was heartbroken oo.... I handed the phone back to my friend and sat down quietly without uttering a word. She was also confused on how to explain what happened to me.
I guess i was already engrossed with another man's relationship forgetting my boundaries, she finally disclosed how they got back together immediately after the breakup and i just got to know a week later.
I was unaware of what was happening all along, and since then i vowed to stay clear off people's relationship and mind my business.
If you have issues with your man, settle it. Avoid third parties.
And for relationship advisers like me, it is wrong to take sides when couples are not on good terms, learn not to be biased or sentimental in your opinions.
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