It is obvious the message sent to their counterparts and the first impression they gave to each other will also determine the success of the relationship. Most guys tend to neglect basic and simple things when trying to get a girl’s attention and they end up being ignored in the process. It is very true that ladies survey and scan your images and page before they reply your messages, so when you don’t meet their criteria they are bound to ignore you.
No one likes to be ignored or taken for granted, we want to be treated specially, therefore below are 5 reasons she could be possibly ignoring your messages. If you are guilty of any of them, then try to stop.
1. Too much editing: I really don’t get the part where you click on a young man’s photos and you see clipart’s dangling up and down. Sincerely it’s an eyesore; you shouldn’t overuse and abuse the things that were created to enhance the picture. If you don’t know how to use filters and clipart, keep way from it rather than editing your picture and looking like a scarecrow at the end of the day.
2. Money poses: As annoying as this is, it is so common even amongst celebrities. What are you showing us? Your money? Your wealth? It is not necessary at all; instead you only attract the wrong kind of girls to you and those are girls that are only after your money, and when leaves you heartbroken, you will open your mouth to say “All girls are the same”. Keep your money to yourself and stop uploading it on social media. It is a turn down for most ladies.
3. Unnecessary Abbreviations: Imagine a sentence you are meant to write as “My day was great and yours?” and you write “mi dae woz grt and urs”. Haba! Relax... Most ladies would just see such message and dismiss you as being unserious and immature. It won’t take you the whole day to write your sentences in full. Some would even use “xoon” instead of “Soon”. I was guilty of this but I had to learn that it looks much more professional and mature when you write correct sentences.
4. Early profession of love: How can you add up or follow a lady on social media and the first message or first conversation you had with her, you send her a message professing your love for her. Just like that, is love that easy! No matter, how long you have been secretly admiring her, try to resist telling her how much you love her too soon. Take your time at least. Girls get more attracted to guys who don’t ask them out or profess their love too early. They do, because they begin to wonder if you truly like them or not.
5. Fake long names: This one pisses me off. Why in God’s name will a mother give her child a name as ‘Thatdopepussyniggarstar sugarsexyboy’ like seriously!
A guy would just conjure a name and start bearing and later you will wonder why things are not working fine. How will it work fine when you neglect the original name your parents gave you. If a name like ‘Chukwuka Amos’ sends a message, there is no way a mature lady will ignore his message to reply ‘Thatdopepussyniggar….’.
These are simple everyday tips guys need to bear in mind so she won’t make you feel like you are unworthy of her reply or too ugly.
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